It does shock me that she can get that way around A - she followed it up yesterday with the most ridiculous email - pretending to apologize for her outburst - but accusing me of "trying to pick a fight" - she then went on to ask me if my S12 could travel with her and S2 to visit her family in a couple weeks....after I picked my head off the floor and reread it, it dawned on my that she's just trying to recreate drama and tension between us - much like her version of a relationship...but I'm just not at all interested.
No...I don't have to have her co-operate for the divorce - though I was hoping to go the mediator route in the best interests of our S2....such does not seem to be the case...so it looks like the divorce will end up being far more expensive than it has to be...bother.
I was pleased to see, however, that her rage and insults did not affect my mood at all - nor did I even get upset or feel any anger - it was just a feeling of disgust that someone could behave that way in front of a baby...and toward the baby's father.
