@Greek poked a stick in my cage, leveling the "you're a walkaway" charge at me. @Kalni took exception to this notion. @Greek said that from @Greek's POV I'm "still married" -- which would, by definition, mean that I am (preparing to have) having an affair.
The stick I'm poking in your cage (great image!) is that yes, by definition, you are doing what we agreed Mrs. SP was doing with Schmuck. We didn't think it was OK when she was doing it....and just b/c I like you, doesn't mean I think it's ok for you to do it. To be clear, what I think does not matter - this is your call only.
Me45 H46 T25 M22 S21 & 19 D13 Separated and filed 8/08 Moved home 11/08