So dating is now the ultimate GAL? All the LBS should now just look at their spouses and see that they are just doing something good for themselves. it's healthy, productive and is good for the family, really? All of SPs "needs" on his list - pizza, beer, sex, house-keeper, new car etc. Are just wants in my book. Did he have all those things while deployed?
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And, if the WAS does have a change of heart/mind, the LBS has something he never had before in the entire sitch -- Choice!
Choice. That's the whole point of DB you have a choice everyday how you act, think, and feel. My wife doesn't make choices for me, I am responsbible for me. I can choose to love even when it is "tough love" or just brotherly love. I had a choice during my whole sitch it had nothing to do with my wife. Isn't that one of the Retro mantras - "Love is a decision."? Making a decision means you had a choice. I can see how jealousy can have it's place in motivating someone. Jealousy is a negative emotion, it is fear based. Not the base I would want to rebuild on. Especially if I had a choice. Cheers
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
