Sandi2, My W has already put me in deep debt and is trying to run away debt free. Everything is in my name because of her credit being bad. I had to freeze a credit card I let her use awhile back and also a debit card. It is sad when you can't trust your spouse with finances. This was a big issue in the beginning of our M too.

My W can't stand anybody in my family for some odd reason. Nobody has done anything to her but recognized her bad treatment of me. She really can't stand my mom because she took over the car notes on the Jeep and has been driving it since our separation. My W gave me the phone I bought her,her wedding rings and also the Jeep when I found out about OM in April 08. Now, she regrets giving up the Jeep of course and hates me mom even more for driving what she call "her car". God truely was protecting me in that situation with the Jeep. I'm glad her self centerness worked against her in that.

I don't have a go-between person, but your right Sandi about that. I really need to stop all contact with her. Yesterday, W asked me if I wanted to keep D2 while she went to class since I was off on holiday. Later on that day, W sent me a text begging me to watch D2 a few more hours because she has been under alot of stress this week and needed to prepare for her test. I stood up to her and told her I was bring D2 back in a few minutes as bad as I wanted to spend more time with her. My mom actually has been on me too about standing up to W and not allowing her to treat me like a doormat any longer.

When I arrived to the drop off point, W started asking me to get D2 diapers because she only had two left. Keep in mind that I just bought groceries and diapers for my house and also a few things to be nice for W's house. I simply told her I would buy diapers. W said today, and I didn't answer. I think it is ridiculous that she can pay to get her hair dyed but can't buy $10 diapers. She has to start being responsible as a mother too don't you think? W tries to picture me as not being responsible if I don't provide for both households. I'm not the one that caused the separation and is living in adultury. This atitude stems from her Dad providing for their family, and W's mom just laying in the bed all day. All her mom does is eat and go shopping. They have someone living with them that cooks and cleans. The lady that cleans etc tried to warn me not to marry my W, but I didn't listen.

Well, I won't bog everyone down with this post...

Later, MOG

"Suffering is painful but makes you a stronger person".