Agree with Stuck...you could get a baby out of this...and with any luck she'll fade into the sunset. I feel sorry for your child, but your W is seriously messed up and I find it hard to imagine how good a mother she'll be.

I hear you talking the talk, but when are you going to walk? You don't have to stay at the same place for the sake of the baby....it's not as though you can control her doing the right things by it or that your presence will change anything with the pregnancy. She's going to be gone to Europe. I'd suggest you use this time to move out and this time not be at the airport.

Despite OM's words, he'll probably sleep with her again...why not, he did it before when he was saying the same things about a girlfriend. Makes me sick when I put myself in your shoes and I can only consider running away.

Please be sure to document all this erratic behavior. Have all these dates down. Keep copies of the e-mails. Any weirdness she's done (hurt herself, what she said about aborting the baby, what she said about OM raising the baby, etc) so that you have ammunition ready for when the baby is born and you'd like to have him/her in your life...maybe even custody if she'll just follow her current MO and focus on her own...whatever it is.

GH, she might have looks, which I suspected all along is what she had going for her (otherwise, she doesn't seem like a catch), but she's soon to be a single mother...it isn't quite as easy to hook up with someone in that scenario. Maybe she'll drop your child on your doorstep and run away.

P.S. Happy Birthday

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