I'm still here. Computer had some kind of bug I needed to clear, was running really slow (still not all that fast).
Glad to hear your 4th was ok. Mine was ok too. D14 had lots to do, so we were on the run.
I know it's hard for you to feel like you've lost BIL and SIL too. Truth is, they may not know what to say. I think your friend is wrong that if you put it back together you'd need to move though. If you can forgive each other, then anyone else needs to also (or not come around).
