25years, My wife wants the negativity out of the marriage. Beacaust of all the negativity in the marriage my wife does not trust me anymore. The free time I have now is used to make myself a better person and hopefully to be happy and relieve stress. When I speak to her all she says is that we can not have a relationship together unless changes are made by me. I am giving her space and vice versa. I do not even want to have face to face contact with her because she is in an affair which she says "he is just a friend". We went to a few marriage counseling sessions together but I think it made her realize that she wants the marriage to be over. I told her I would do whatever it takes to save our marriage.
