i feel like i need to do something different, like another 180...
i have been doing really really well with the gal and taking care of myself and enjoying myself...
i stopped texting h, its been over 2 weeks.
i changed up my behaviors with him and he really took notice, but then i think he gets used to those behaviors and adjusts.
i mixed it up alittle this weekend and called him to say hi, rather than only let him do the calling.
i dont nag, push or question and hardly even made a situation out of psycho ow's latest behaviors.
what else can i do now? do i send a random text or keep that off limits? do i call him or just wait for him to call?
im looking for something alittle different for him to take notice of...all while he isnt living here. its hard when i dont see him for a few days to really get a 180 in.
Doodles,
You're not gettin' it. The "180s" that DB recommends aren't for HIM, they're for YOU. If you're doing your GALs and 180s merely to get a response out of your husband (and it's clear from your posts that you are), then you're still not at all detached, and you're NOT DBing.
