yeah, I have the bookdivorce remedy. It does seem like the more i push her away the more upset she gets.
I had to think long and hard about the reschedule to wed. for the movies. (I got back to her later on it) she gave me a story on how the sitter was unable to watch our son. (we both dont want our friends to know we were going out, too many friends have been sticking there nose in our buissness and I brought it up to her not to tell anyone and she felt the same) which is why I could not go looking for a sitter for him.
I will have to try better at keeping her at a buissness distance. Ive tried so many times befor but she finds reasons to call about the kids. she never fails to ask what time we exchange the kids even though it's the same time every week. even if on the prev exchange i verify it she still calls.
Im not good and keeping my mind off of her and she I think knows this. I do follow the book where i try and do alot of the differant things and stay buisy, (my weekends with out the kids she likes to call sunday morning- I think its her way of checking to see if i stayed out) I don't tell her i love her. she will say it to me once in awhile usually after i got some distance from her.
Im always open to ideas and support in general. anything to keep me buisy.
