Fallgirl, a lot of what she says are stupid little things that don't mean much. While we were in MC, she brought up all the things that bothered her about me. Even though I didn't know about DB, I began doing 180s. I changed the person I was for the better. She made good points. I have maintained those changes for me; I feel better myself for the changes I made. Now, she has something to say about things that she used to like about me, like the example I posted elsewhere: on Sunday she wanted to spend the day at the beach with her sister and all the kids. Usually I would go and her sisters husband wouldn't. He would do work around the house. Before, W told me she was happy that I spent time with the family. This time she said why don't I stay home and do husband things like her sisters husband. WTH?
Me-40 W-41 Together-10 M-8 S-6 S-4 Bomb 5/08 Bomb 10/08 Thought things were better, was wrong. Still living together Wife doesn't think she will ever love me again.
