GH,

A belated Happy Birthday.

I don't know what to say on the passport front. Either find them and cut them up....which would show you cared and is maybe not the best move....or warn OM of impending visit?

Other than that....shrug those broad shoulders you have grown and ignore W.

I am sure flying is not brilliant for the baby and if your W was that afraid of abortion/ miscarriage she would avoid it.

All I can think of is the waste of money she is spending which she could be investing in her child's future.

Honestly GH....now you are going to be connected to this woman forever through your child. In a way I hope she does drop the baby in your hands and run....a nanny would be cheaper in SO many ways- but I just can't see her doing it. She will have a permanent way to get at you. I am so sorry. Something needs to happen to make your W value the feelings of others.


Saffie
me 46
H 46
M in 1986
D20,D18,S16,D13
H's A 01/05 to 07/06
H recommitted to M 07/06
renewed vows 09/06
Going from strength to strength