If I were you, I wouldnt be her friend, or at least I would keep her at arms length. As long as you let her keep stepping on you, she will. Women like men who stand up for themselves. Lovingly detach from your situation, and her. I
Im sure that she is feeling like she has to keep from getting close to you, or giving you false hope, she is in a Walk Away fog and can probably convince herself that water isnt wet and the sky isnt blue right now.
If she invites you to the movies I would accept her invite, and if she flakes dont make another date, hopefully she will see that she cant string you along, but thats just my opinion. But, above all, you dont invite her.
Keep things business, you dont contact her unless its about the kids, and when you do, be upbeat, and you be the one to end the conversation. Make yourself mysterious, start to do some really interesting things, make her miss you I guess is the thing.
If you havent read the Divorce Busting books, you really should, and take their advice. Its scary, but it works.
Good luck, keep posting, other people with more experience and better advice than I have will post.
Last edited by bluerain; 07/07/0904:31 AM.
I guess I gave the wrong finger to the wrong man...