Vito I just read a post you made on another thread about your W wanting to move 300 miles away and how could you possibly have a relationship with your daughter - as the poster said above, I don't think any state will allow a mother to up and leave with a 2 year old and move 300 miles away against the wishes of the other parent.
Most states require a certain proximity of moving with children and it is very, very rare to allow a parent to move a long distance away and take the children. You need to consult a lawyer who is familiar with the laws of your state.
The first thing you need to work on is detaching... (along with reading the book, not brining up any relationship/marriage talks, no arguing, no questioning her, no begging/pleading/guilt trips, no I love you's, no cards/gifts, etc...)