"Deception"

[sandi2]

I can't remember if you mentioned this, but if your finances had not been spilt from her and your name taken off her credit cards, etc., she will put you in the poor house.

Is there any person you could trust to be your "go-between" in getting your child for the visitation times? I read a great thread about a man who stood up to his WAW and told her that he would never let her know his phone number, mailling address or where he lived. She would not be able to TM him or send emails. He would change everything and he would have another person to pick the kids up and deliever them. If she needed to be told anything, he would have that person to give her a message. He meant to be out of her life forever! Now, she really took notice to that and straighten her little act up. I am not saying "your" W would, but you might want to consider getting a good friend or relative who would agree to do that for you. It would have to be a strong person who she could not back down and use her tricks on. A person who would simply pick up the child, deliever her to you and then take her back home. He/she would deliever any messages between you and W (but only important things...not this silly stuff). There aren't too many people who would be willing to be put in that position, but you may have somebody. Something I would consider if I were in your place. I know you don't want to do that, but she will continue to do this number on you as long as she has the power to do it. That power must be taken from her before it stops.

Take care,
Sandi