S, I will discuss this further when I call you. But, I have gone to several lawyers and one in particular more than once. Bankruptcy will only solve one part of this, if h is even willing to do it. There is no equity in the house. There are no savings, no investments except his small 401k. Having seen two divorces with my friends, I have seen firsthand how dire my situation is. My lawyer has said as much.
I do work part time. I have been trying to find a full time job. Paying for the lawyer is even an issue. We are in sad financial shape because of things h has done for many years.
But, it is what it is. Nothing I could do to change it.
Right now, I need to let go completely. If I dont, I will not be able to get through it all.
I am so glad that you will be ok financially. THat is the least you deserve.
THank you for worrying about me. You are a good friend.
