Boy you sure got that right Gardener, especially #2. According to my W's thinking, damn near anybody can change for the better- especially her OM- but not her H. Apparently us LBHs are the only members of the human species who can't adapt/change, therefore your right, our WAWs really have no choice but to discard us and find someone who is perfect.
Yeah, I know. Still don't think my wife has an OM, though. My DIL (in whom my wife confides somewhat) tells me no way. Of course the last time DIL shared with me was to say that my wife can't make up her mind what to do and the next day my wife asked for a D(!)
Gucci Loafer says "the signs are all there" that my wife is having an A. He didn't elaborate, and he hasn't returned to my thread since I asked him to explain.
How the hell does one find out? I won't snoop. Or should I stay with my gut of knowing this woman's core and knowing, somehow, in my gut, that she's just not having an A? Am I just borrowing non-existent trouble?
Gardener
"My soul, be satisfied with flowers, With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them In the one garden you may call your own." Cyrano deBergerac
