Can it get any worse?

[Silent Chrleader]

Ah, Glam.

I'm right here beside ya', honey, with letting it all go. In a way, I think maybe I have it easier because my H cut the ties pretty decisively when he finally did it.....didn't keep up intimacy and such for 3 years.

It's funny, but I always considered you were one of "the lucky ones" whose H just at least seemed to continue to give something to the R. Now, I'm actually sorta thankful that my H didn't do that, because I, like you, would have seen that as "a chance" and would have held on for all I was worth.

And, Glam, I personally think that you have yet to have the best sex of your life! I say that because I know that your H did not respect you as you so richly deserve, and without that you have only "technique". And "technique" can be taught! When you finally find the man who is destined for you (and I believe you will!) and have that true emotional bond that your H could never really reciprocate because he didn't have that ability (at least not yet)......well, I think you will be amazed at how much more satisfying ml will be, and you will wonder how you thought that things were so "great" with your H.

I can say that because I believe it for myself too. My H and I were very "compatible" in that area, and had a joke that if things outside the bedroom were as good as inside the bedroom, life would have been Utopia! That was something that was very hard for me to let go of too. But, I am trying to keep in mind that if it was that good with someone who had issues with "real intimacy", how much better will it be with someone who really truly loves me!

Hang in there, my friend!!

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