3 years of S, OW gone - What do I want?

[forward]

SH,
It's not pathetic. It is doing your very best. I do not regret putting forward the effort. Someday I will tell my little one that I did my best and that it was H who was unable to be a grownup and accept reality.

Time to be less available to him, if you haven't pulled far away already.

As far as changes...I don't see changes w/H, either. However, it is possible that there is more there than meets the eye. I sense that H is ashamed but not regretful.

Doesn't hurt to have a couple of potential interests. =)