Closing thought. There is the element of a game plan or play book mentality in all of this, but my feeling is that is backing off, releasing the pursuit, helps H clear his head, and be able to breathe again, then that can only be helpful. And, if I am now asking H's opinion on thibgs, instead of forcing mine on him, then that is good for me overall, as well. Who likes a controlling/pushing friend, spouse, colleague? So, these actions may be part of a plan, but they are necessary for overall improvement. We can all use that!
I think you might be a pretty smart lady!
I second that!!!
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."
