i do not know if he said something to her, im more wondering what is setting her off these days...

losing my home is a huge deal to me, it is very painful...we moved in here right before he went nuts..3 years.

we worked so hard to get this house and put in over $100,000 in renovations.

i have lost all equity and am praying right now they dont take it in foreclosure. i am waiting for the bank to accept a crazy low offer i received.

i do not know where i will be moving to. its so weird to have gone from having it all, to have not too much left.

thank g-d he was not able to touch our 401k. its all we have left and i will be fighting for the entire thing if things move forward legally.

my mil claims to not know anything about where he is looking workwise. she told me she gave him suggestions.

who knows.

me: 31
H:29
Son:5
m:8 years in november
t:10 years
first bomb: 10/06
moved home: 3/08 out again 5/08
ow bomb: 4/08, since summer 06
d filed:6/08, on hold 6/08
moved home:3/09 out again 5/09