total quarter life mlc

[Sanderika]

Hello mdoodles,

Thanks for posting on my thread.

I am happy you have reported that "P-B" hasn't made contact since the last time.

In my State we can put a PFA Order (Protection from Abuse or Restraining Order) on a family member only. Otherwise here we have to file a Legal Complaint (like sueing) for Harrassment on any other individual. It has to go to court the way any other case does and in some cases a trial. I never considered that as one of my options when the OW assaulted me because of the complexity it involved here.

Do you think H said something to threaten her in regards to her very bad behavior?

If your H is a work-a-holic I am sure he is looking. I married one also and it would drive him stark raving mad to sit around.

Does your H tell his parents any news about the job hunting. You said you are best friends with MIL, maybe she can keep you informed so that you do not appear to be a nag with H.

I know first hand it will drive them away if they think they are being nagged about something from us. Let your home be a safe haven for H from the MLC and the storm we all know as "P-B".

I am sorry you have to move. I can only imagine how hard that is. I have lived in my home for 25 years now. Moving out is a fear of mine. I know I will not be able to afford the property if we D. I worry about it all the time so I can only sympathize
on that note.

Lay Low, Be Quiet and Remember Friendly, Friendly, Friendly.....

Have a good evening....

Sanderika