Hey Lisa.. sorry about the D and no, I wouldnt say lets through a party/go for a drink...maybe lets blow some money on some amazing treat, because life is too short, but its a sad thing thats for sure, not something to celebrate.

As for this.. "I mean, who leaves their wife because she cooked too many vegetables and had the wrong type of hair? And if that wasn't the reason, at least have the decency to tell her why you left.".. you said you cant see him ever coming back.. so.. why dont you just ASK HIM? Ask him, hey H, why have you behaved so confusingly and why did you leave me in the first place? If he says "oh I dont know/cant explain".. tell him, well thats not good enough, I need to know, for closure. ????

As for CEO... brilliant! Yes, ask him to go for dinner and drinks instead of (or as well as!) roses. Maybe he will bring you a bouquet of them AND take you to dinner. Its the oddest situation, its like you are his imaginary W (instead of his actual W!). We dont get celebratories from Eastenders down here, but a old woman in a charity shop once thought me and bf were an item when we were still apart. Doesnt get more glamorous than that, living the dream hey !

Glad you are still posting, its always good to hear how you are getting on.
Al xxx


Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs
IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08
Reconciled 05/09 now married!
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