H really IS confusing isn't he? I've given up trying to work out what's in his head (some kind of aubergine crack habit brought on by me forcing vegetables on him for all those years, I imagine?)
Hey Lisa! No, I'm not dating MY CEO, but a CEO of a different company. It is random and we'll see how it goes. I don't hold my breath with him.
I'm feeling ok about the divorce. A little mad b/c I truly believe that H and I could've worked it out, but I feel we are so far gone now. We continue to hang out and had a great day in NYC on Friday b/c I had off from work. He isn't with the Horse anymore, but is dating other girls. Strangest thing is that I hated the Horse, but don't mind him dating other girls. I don't know. It is strange but I like the way it is.
I'm totally understand how you are feeling about your H and CEO is even driving ME nuts! Sigh!
H & I, both 32, together since 18. *M 7/03, A since 9/06. Bomb 7/07, H ended it w/ OW 9/08 * Agreed to D 6/09...very hard *D 8/10 * At peace, have become great friends w/ X-H and his new GF
Hey Lisa.. sorry about the D and no, I wouldnt say lets through a party/go for a drink...maybe lets blow some money on some amazing treat, because life is too short, but its a sad thing thats for sure, not something to celebrate.
As for this.. "I mean, who leaves their wife because she cooked too many vegetables and had the wrong type of hair? And if that wasn't the reason, at least have the decency to tell her why you left.".. you said you cant see him ever coming back.. so.. why dont you just ASK HIM? Ask him, hey H, why have you behaved so confusingly and why did you leave me in the first place? If he says "oh I dont know/cant explain".. tell him, well thats not good enough, I need to know, for closure. ????
As for CEO... brilliant! Yes, ask him to go for dinner and drinks instead of (or as well as!) roses. Maybe he will bring you a bouquet of them AND take you to dinner. Its the oddest situation, its like you are his imaginary W (instead of his actual W!). We dont get celebratories from Eastenders down here, but a old woman in a charity shop once thought me and bf were an item when we were still apart. Doesnt get more glamorous than that, living the dream hey !
Glad you are still posting, its always good to hear how you are getting on. Al xxx
Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08 Reconciled 05/09 now married! my thread
