I think she may be taking it harder than she did when we had the breakup talk. She has texted me that I was a mean man to have caused her to be lonely again. And she says that she has lost 3 pounds in 5 days since I "dropped the bomb". I have let her know that I am available any time to talk and she can take it out on me.
We did go see the fireworks together on the 4th with some of her family and we had a good time. She wants me to take her and some others cherry picking next weekend.
Hey dday -
One very obvious sign that a woman is not a virgin is if they have kids.
I have talked with the X a couple times now in Thailand. S8 has been sleeping with grandma and D6 sleeps with her girl cousin who is about the same age. I sure would like to see the communication methods those 2 girls are attempting with each other - I think Barbie doll talk is maybe universal.
They are now visiting the prostitution capital of the world (Pattaya). One does not need to wonder how X is perceived when walking the streets in the arms of an old man. At least when I was there with her she was pregnant and worried what others might think when they saw me with her. Her brother and I just joked that surely they would think she was a pregnant prostitute.
I also remember when I was there that I saw a fat old man walking down the street holding hands with what looked like a 12-14 year old boy. It took a lot for me to not unload my fists of fury on that sick demented creep.
