I don't think she will; she has you in her life thank goodness. I also doubt OW is going to last long-term.
It's apparent to me that a lot of the OM and OW come from messed-up families. And a lot of our WAS also. I do like to believe that you can overcome a troubled childhood, but I think 95% of the time we wind up being a lot like our parents. I'm scarily like my dad, and my H is a mix of his parents. I seriously before I would ever get involved with anyone again, like engaged or whatever, want to meet their family first. I think a lot of times that tells you more than anything what they are really like at the core... Karen
