I know it is for me, and I am feeling it. I would like to hear stories of waw's who came back after a few months of indifference, and possible EA. I know it might be against db rules, but I thrive when I feel hope.
As long as you keep in mind that all of those db things you are doing truly are for YOU...I'll direct you to Coach's threads. The WAW he writes about in those threads is me and you can read for yourself what he did and how I responded.
He did the 180s, GAL, took control of himself and put me at arms length. I never had the feeling nor did he send the message that the door was closed - but he detached well enough that when I reached the safety level of thinking to come home, I felt I should ask if he concurred.
Read his threads. He's a source of hope.
Cheers ~~~~
Me45 H46 T25 M22 S21 & 19 D13 Separated and filed 8/08 Moved home 11/08