Aw thanks, sweetie. I actually enjoy helping people like this, so its good for me, not a hindrance. Also I enjoy writing, and forums like this one give me a chance to jot out 2,000 word essays in a snap. Its like a great creative writing assignment every day!
Just keep remembering that he thinks he is just following YOUR rules. He isn't aware that he has stepped on your emotional toes, and once he is aware, he will switch it up. He just needs to be taken by the hand and shown how it should be. Sounds easy, but as you know, its a process.