I just don't get that. It sounds like they have this whole fantasy family they imagine they are. Weird. It sounds like there might be some chinks in OW's fantasy world though. The truth is reality has to eventually intrude I think.
I've actually had a lot of good come out of the separation and D process, but losing my kids part of the time and knowing OW is with them instead of me is the hardest part. Does that get easier ever? I don't know... Karen