I think the distance is best for me right now because it allows me to put it into perspective...it makes me take things slowly....and I can attend to the important things---and get to process and stuff...
If it turns into something serious then we can discuss, well, serious things...but for now...I think this is best for ME...I am not saying this is good for everyone and still, I would prefer that he live in the same city as I do...but I think I would be moving along at a quicker rate and I like this man...he is not like Spongebob at all...and at first, I found that kind of different and I was not sure that I liked him...thought he was too laid back and too gentle really...and then I thought: WHAT AM I THINKING?????
He is a GOOD MAN, at least as far as I can tell. And everyone that knows him keeps telling me how fabulous and giving and kind and smart, funny, witty he is...I would be a FOOL to let him slip through my fingers without trying to see what else was there...and he is good looking too! He has no children...he has never been married...so no drama there...he is financially stable, he has a good job that he LOVES.
So, we shall see what happens...if nothing, he would be a great friend to have...
I'll keep you posted!
Hugs, Vali
Aug '06: H moved out July '08: H had a kid with the OW May 12 '09: emancipation day
"Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it." -Ferris Bueller
