So --what sandi said. I mean, your w says she wants WHAT Changes in you BEFORE she comes home?
And how is not showing her these changes you MAY make, helping to get her home?
I am not clear on what behavioral things she'd notice, that you are doing to GAL or have a PMA. I KNOW you are getting help to stay on keel, but is it showing to her? Are you upbeat when you talk? Have you started to GAL? What are you waiting for? Model recovery of your sobriety AND happiness, for your d, and yourself. Be the author of "your life's novel" and take charge of your happiness. GAL. IT works.
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M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016