The current changes I am doing right now are: on anti-depressants,on medication for alcohol abuse
I would say those are "major" changes. Can you think of some other areas that need to be improved in habits or personality traits? Just b/c you do not have contact with her does not mean that you don't need to work on yourself. That is not to dismiss these two major issues you're dealing with, but a lot of times we begin to get kind of careless after we've been M a while and don't try as hard to be that great person we are capable of being. You may feel that you are dealing with all you can at the moment, but I was basing this on the way you talked in your post. She talked as if she wanted you to be through with the changes by the time she went back home, but you talk as if you are waiting "until" she comes back.
Later, Sandi
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
