I am so sorry if my post becomes regarded as disrespectful to SP. And I understand your points, Kalni, I do. Let me say it another way ~ SP is still married and stepping out on his W. Is he not? That is what Mrs. SP did, too.
In retrospect, I should have held that point to myself. You've helped me see that if might not have had the constructive element I then thought it would.
Cheers ~~~
Me45 H46 T25 M22 S21 & 19 D13 Separated and filed 8/08 Moved home 11/08