While I agree with appealing to their "heroic" side...I also must say you have to protect yourself. The two are not incompatible. But if the WAS is really going to be heroic, well, they would be home. So it only goes so far.
Take care of yourself and you'll get some respect from him and he'll probably do the right thing on his own. You don't have to remove that possibility but you need to retain it, make sense? IOW, if he doesn't come thru on his own, you need to be able to force his hand. Take charge of your life b/c no one else will. I hate saying that but it IS important that you accept this. (( )) j-
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