I've read most of the MLC resources. I stopped b/c I get so frustrated reading them. They're in a fog ... lost ... can't seem to find their way .... I get it. I really do. I feel for her. The frustrating part is the advice for those of us left behind. There's nothing you can do for them other than sit back and settle in for a long ride while they destroy the various relationships around them and hit bottom. They may hit bottom. They may not.