Didn't Mrs. SP express a similar mindset when she dropped the bomb on you?
What I mean about having something in common with her is that as she was making the run up to drop the bomb/leave, she was observing how her H was not there for her, not physical with her, checked out of her life in many ways...so, she went elsewhere. You now observe the same in her, and you're going elsewhere. Just pointing out a similarity I see. You also are a walk away. She just did it first.
I am sorry I dont see that. In other words I disagree. I wonder how you can say that? He is a walk away? He is walking away from what? And, would he be still a walk away if 2 years later, he decided the same thing?
This walk away term used for LBSs is "pushing it a lot" and often it makes me wonder if I really am weird or something. In the context here, of this forum, WAs are people walking away from the M/R. To be a husband you need a wife. When they have removed themselves from your life, you are no longer a wife or a H to anyone.We like it or not, that's a fact.
The decision to stop standing doesnt have to do with religion or anything. Of course WHEN you do that (remove your self), it's your own personal choice. Sometimes, so much ahs happened, you just need to have a reason to hold on, they have to give you a reason to hold on.
You can say others are "standing" longer, you can also say that other WAs are not so definite about what they want and their LBS stay "easier"in limbo, you can say that the timeline is different for everyone, so is patience, pride etc. But I would never call someone like SP or others on this board a WAs. To me it's almost an insult, disrespectful... (not trying to be harsh dear Greek, dont know another word that I could use and I really feel strong about this one). K
