Maybe she is inviting me to ask her why she would think I did not want to go to the movie?
You just got the jitters! You are way too tense and need to chill out. Be cool and sexy. As to your answer to her, just reply...."sure". Don't make it so intense. When she passes the ball to you, you answer in short answers and pass the ball back to her. If she says, "Do you want to eat out before the movie?", tell her "Sounds fine. You make the call."
See what I mean? If you let this get you in a bundle of nerves, then you can't relax and be fun. Right now, it is all about the two of you being able to "relax" around each other and have a nice time.
(And, btw, for gosh sakes don't fall into any R talks.....and if you answered the way you suggested....that is exactly what would happen.)
The friends may have checked with her instead of you simply b/c you "knew" they were supportive of you and therefore thought you wouldn't have a problem with them coming over.....whereas your W may have a big problem since they don't support her. JMHO.
Later, Sandi
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
