I'm one who 'saved' my R (I dont think thats possible actaully, if they really love you and are meant to be with you, they will work through THEIR issues and come back of their own accord, as long as the door is still open for them)...but I actually did kind of gently ask Julia if it was wise to hang on for her H any longer, seeing as he had appeared to not be expressing any regret, or unhappiness since moving in with OW. BUT.. Julia seems to be moving forwards whilst leaving the door open, and that seems pretty healthy to me, especially as it wasnt that long ago they were walking down the aisle. Its all just part of a long, natural process hey, but lovingly detaching and valueing yourself again seems to be key though, I agree.
Julia, I was never a big Take That fan, but I think they are possibly the loveliest men in pop and Gary Barlow has an amazing voice. He was so humble on radio 1 this morning about it all too! Did you hear him?
Great that your H responded so fast to your text, who'd have thought it hey? Good you didnt reply too !!! xxx
Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08 Reconciled 05/09 now married! my thread
