Another odd thing: XW didn't wait long at all to have her name changed back? Why, did it hurt too much to bear? She held her first XH's name the whole time we dated so that her and S12 had the same name. Why does she want to differ from both kids now?
funny, as I started making out the check she was quick to blurt, "oh, I have a different name". All could say was "and it is?" She looked at me goofely and said "my maiden, what else?". I looked over at OM playing with our kids and said "I don't know you tell me?" She made this disapointed look rolling her eyes?
But I dont' get it, why would she spend the money to have her name changed if she's marrying OM anyway?
Me 35/XW 33 S13 & S12 M: 10/17/98 OM & S: 07/08 D final 06/09/09 12/03/09 - 06/13/10 "Piercing" 06/13/10: Engaged to Re-marry 10/17/10 06/25/10: Expecting baby #3 2/14/11