Thanks. My great ?'s happen once in a blue moon. I am also working towards detachment. Some days, I am there, and others, not quite. Keep working towards.
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I have the same thoughts. I have been detached and focused on myself (at least in my own mind) for several months. I also wonder "Do I really want to reconcile?". But I also still get comments from my W that tell me she hasn't noticed (or is refusing to notice).
Don't know whey the WAS's will not acknowledge our changes, but that is one of those "them" problems not our's. Could be that they have already emotionally detached long ago (at least in my case I think that may be it) or they are too consumed with their own issues.
