Yep, can't, nor should I, control H, but I can control my response to likely further storm fronts as they come through!
Next storm front:
IF we go on this city trip, his mates are in same city, he may get a call to go out for drinks at a pub (common before this crisis they all have week off too), if so he would go out after the kids were asleep. It would really piss me off but as we are moving in such better direction should I let it pass but this might be needed as a stress breaker? Should I discuss it before the trip? Otherwise, after kids sleep, we would order room service, watch an inhouse movie with a bottle or wine or similar (bit like at home). I don't want to be looking forward to my "holiday" and then be the babysitter for the night, but would rather that than have him there under duress.
I am thinking I need to build the positive family memories for us all at this stage?
