Fog is lifting for my german wife

[Thinker]

I think we LBS's (myself included) wonder if our WAS's even notice we have (or are trying to) dropped the rope.

Great question givingitmyall...!

I have the same thoughts. I have been detached and focused on myself (at least in my own mind) for several months. I also wonder "Do I really want to reconcile?". But I also still get comments from my W that tell me she hasn't noticed (or is refusing to notice).