I think your friend is only reading her disappointment into your situation.
Same here.
We all do that. DB-ers who have saved their marriages will cheer you on. Those who haven't, will wonder why they tried so hard only to "fail" and, in turn, advise you to move on with your life and not drag things on so long.
Make sense?
You are a lovely, intelligent, sweet and attractive woman. Believe that, and, perhaps, the power will shift back to you in the situation.
