Hi Paul,
I know exactly what you are going thru.Maybe by putting the pressure on her to file,she will think about what she is doing.My sitch is almost the same.I feel like I can't take anymore sometimes.Problem in my sitch. is that I live in a fault state and she has no grounds against me.So it is now up to me to make this devastating decision.Hope everything woks out for you.Take care.

M-13yrs
T-15yrs
S12,S10
Bomb-12/08