Just a recap of my situatiom:
I have been married for 10 years and have known her 12. I have one seven year old daughter. She was hardly ever intimate with me which led me to feeling rejected. This rejection led me to become self centered (which is not a good thing) but I was holding all of my emotions inside. We went to marriage counseling a few times but to no availfor all the negativity she complained about.. She stated That I need to see some changes in you before I go back. I am currently on anti-depressants and trying to make a life for myself. She is currently in an EA/PA which adds more fuel to the fire. I have decided to do the last of the last resort techniques which is not having any contact with her whatsoever. Any comments would be appreciated.