Thanks. I don't know really know this person I'm living in the same house with anymore. Since he lied to me about our friend, he's really done nothing to restore my trust.
I think if he wants to bring up the phone call I made to her last Monday and wants to start accusing me of looking at the phone records again. I'm going to say look - whether you believe me or not is a mute point. I see this as a defensive strategy because you tried to tell me you accidentally called her and then she gave you up. My intentions were good when I called whether you want to believe it or not.
So without feeling like I can fully trust him and because of his "fogbabble" state I need to know what's going on with the business. How much debt am I liable for? And of course, is he hiding money anywhere?
A friend that I went to high school with is a lawyer (we both work at the same company) gave me a name of a good divorce lawyer just in case I need it. So I'll be prepared if/when it comes down to that.