She will always have a place in my heart. It's no longer a place for a wife, it's a place for the mother of my kids.

I wish her well, I really do. I can no longer go on living like this. I have talked to an attorney a few weeks ago. I live in a no fault state, so it doesn't matter if there is infidelity. I'm going to let her file when she is able to.

Once the kids leave with my parents she wont be staying at the house. She has already made the necessary arangements to to that. I'm not sure DB.com is the place for me anymore since I no longer want to reconsile with my W.

It's just too stressful and toxic for my well being.

I do hope that everyone has more success then I have had bringing there spouse back around.

Good luck to everyone!

Puppy, trapt, sandi, and everyone else that has supported me thank you from the bottom of my heart. You are an assets to this site. Keep doing what your doing.

Thanks
Paul

Last edited by whereami; 07/06/09 02:25 PM.

me 34
W 37
three kids 9 13 17
married 14 years together 15
well the bomb has been dropped a few times
most recent was early June