This weekend was our anniversary. We pretty much spent the entire weekend as a family. I got the WAW a card, left it out for her to see Sunday morning while I was out for my bike ride. When I got back she thanked me for the card (she didn't get me one but I didn't expect anything). I also got her a little "inside joke" present she thought was funny. We all went out for dinner and had a nice time.
Don't know if she is just putting on a good face or what, but it was a pretty nice weekend. When we are out to dinner, I said I had a nice time this weekend and I just value and appreciate it as I know it is possible it is our last anniversary together. She didn't say anything, one way or the other, so not sure what she thought of that comment. She did say she liked the place we ate and we should go again.
It has been over 3 weeks since she has talked anything about the actual process of separation/divorce. Other than my comment above I have not mentioned it at all in that time. Just living day to day and enjoying life as I can. All things considered, it isn't bad right now.
Last edited by JKL2009; 07/06/0901:23 PM.
H35 W34 S4 | T-10 yrs M-6 yrs WAW said M over 04/09 | Living separate since 09/09 Thread #1 Thread #2 Thread #3
Well, like all here have experienced, the drama comes again. WAW just emailed and asked for contact info for my attonrey. I replied sure thing, here it is, and just curious what's going on? Reply was - not feeling well and heading home, we can talk tonight.
H35 W34 S4 | T-10 yrs M-6 yrs WAW said M over 04/09 | Living separate since 09/09 Thread #1 Thread #2 Thread #3
Don't expect it to be anything "good" but it is what it is. I suspect it will be either a) she is moving out or b) she is filing (again; if viewers recall she did before but had it dismissed). I don't know what else would involve lawyers.
My only beef here, and of course I am just speculating, is why lawyers need to be involved right not? We have been getting along well, very civil, and if she wants to move forward she just needed to tell me as I had not been uncooperative.
Clearly she has been holding back and keeping a lot inside, acting “as if” in her own way. I guess I will know more in a bit, so not going to worry too much right now.
H35 W34 S4 | T-10 yrs M-6 yrs WAW said M over 04/09 | Living separate since 09/09 Thread #1 Thread #2 Thread #3
Well, not soon enough apparently. WAW was not feeling well tonight, very tired, so asked that we not talk tonight about "stuff." Fine, tomorrow then. Going with the flow!
H35 W34 S4 | T-10 yrs M-6 yrs WAW said M over 04/09 | Living separate since 09/09 Thread #1 Thread #2 Thread #3
