First off I want to thank everyone for all of the support I have received on my situation.
I'm no longer going to try and salvage my M anymore. I'm definitely not going to pay for her cell phone or anything other then her car and insurance.
Taking my D over to that losers house was the final straw for me. My W is aware that I will not tolerate that crap anymore. I even called the other chic and gave her a piece of my mind, and let her know where I stand. Probably wasn't necessary, but it did make me feel better.
I lost my cool yesterday, and that will not happen again. She no longer has any power over me.
me 34 W 37 three kids 9 13 17 married 14 years together 15 well the bomb has been dropped a few times most recent was early June