This weekend was our anniversary. We pretty much spent the entire weekend as a family. I got the WAW a card, left it out for her to see Sunday morning while I was out for my bike ride. When I got back she thanked me for the card (she didn't get me one but I didn't expect anything). I also got her a little "inside joke" present she thought was funny. We all went out for dinner and had a nice time.
Don't know if she is just putting on a good face or what, but it was a pretty nice weekend. When we are out to dinner, I said I had a nice time this weekend and I just value and appreciate it as I know it is possible it is our last anniversary together. She didn't say anything, one way or the other, so not sure what she thought of that comment. She did say she liked the place we ate and we should go again.
It has been over 3 weeks since she has talked anything about the actual process of separation/divorce. Other than my comment above I have not mentioned it at all in that time. Just living day to day and enjoying life as I can. All things considered, it isn't bad right now.
Last edited by JKL2009; 07/06/0901:23 PM.
H35 W34 S4 | T-10 yrs M-6 yrs WAW said M over 04/09 | Living separate since 09/09 Thread #1 Thread #2 Thread #3
