Face it. Handle it. Live freely, without fear running your life. That's freedom. You can have it if you choose it.
I like New Hampshire's license plate's motto: LIVE FREE OR DIE... (i.e., there are worse things than death....or divorce....) But you have to choose freedom.
Face the FEAR and HANDLE IT. No more fear based choices...they are not choices...they are daily surrenders, and retreats.
Stand up for yourself, set healthy boundaries that you believe in and enforce them. Period.
((( j )))
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016